The journey of older people’s care moves

Better Care Moves: The Journey of Older People's Care Moves

Here we talk to older people, family and friends, and social care practitioners about the challenges of moving between care settings for older people. People talked about feelings of guilt and worry and not being listened to. They also spoke about issues with communication and trust, practical help and information, and the issue of having to move more than once.

Feelings of guilt, fear, worry and not being listened to

Older people found it challenging to make decisions regarding moving and to look for information and advice. It can be even more challenging for people with dementia to make decisions or understand and process information from diverse sources.

Supporting moves has been reported to be a very stressful and exhausting process for family and friend carers. They especially struggle to ‘let go’ or experience feelings of guilt for facilitating the moves. This can impact on their physical health and mental health, as well as relationships between family members. Many carers told us that one of the most frustrating situations for them was that health and/or social care staff do not listen, care or inform carers about older people’s move related issues.

A 91 year-old woman explained she feels guilty about having encouraged a friend to go into a care home, which turned out to be unsuitable.

“The thing I think I feel most strongly about … is how guilty I feel in having facilitated, assisted, encouraged, talked through, somebody going into a home, who afterwards we find the home is not what we hope it is to be.”

A woman, caring for her husband with mild dementia, was upset because the staff didn't inform her about his move, causing distress for both of them.

Communication and trust

People said that effective communication and trust between practitioners and older people and their carers was key when supporting the moving process.

One man told us that he would like advice on how best to talk to his mum.

“[The challenge is] not having professional advice on hand as to how to speak with my mum… We tried to be as sensitive as possible. But […] we’re just not professionals. It was just learning as you go with the whole way. We didn’t know the way in which to talk to her and we still don’t.”  

 

A discharge coordinator tries to put themselves in the family’s shoes and make sure they have all the information.

A dementia café lead talks about the importance of trust when talking about a decision to move to a care home.

“Building trust is really important, especially when it’s at – well, it’s a big decision about moves, it’s really a difficult decision and they need to talk with someone they trust, rather than who just pops in.”

Practical help, information and advice

Going through the complex process of moving, older people and their carers also require practical help, information and advice, for example, about the logistics of the actual physical move on moving day and the assessments that are required.

A person who was caring for a parent had difficulties in finding professionals to talk;

“Building trust is really important, especially when it’s at – well, it’s a big decision about moves, it’s really a difficult decision and they need to talk with someone they trust, rather than who just pops in.”

A 64 year old disabled man talks about trying to arrange a removal company.

Some also highlighted that some of the transition points are especially challenging. For example, divisions within the health and social care sector lead to scattered information and a lack of cross-team communications.

Multiple moves

It is also very common for older people to experience multiple moves between home and care settings in later life.

A woman caring for her husband with mild dementia said that he was moved 5 times in a short space of time and was very distressed

A care home manager talks about the need for hospitals to communicate better with the home when discharging a patient to a care home, so that proper planning can take place.

This became a significant problem during the COVID-19 pandemic when social care teams were moved out from hospitals, and were not involved in hospital discharge decisions under the Discharge to Assess pathway. The role of social care practitioners who used to be based at hospitals has significantly changed in this context, as they can only conduct assessments regarding the person’s social care needs after patients have been discharged home or to a care home.

A discharge coordinator talks about how the process changed during the height of the pandemic.

The experiences people shared with us suggest that a lack of communication and cross-team/sector collaboration leads to misunderstandings between health and social care staff and among different roles within the social care sector. These misunderstandings, in turn, can cause problems for potential partnership working.

A discharge coordinator at a rehab hospital discusses the challenges of working with social care

Some people, including practitioners, also highlighted the importance of trying to cut down on unnecessary moves and preventing problems from developing.

A social worker stresses the need to prevent moves if possible

How to improve move-related practice

We talked to older people, carers and social care practitioners about how to improve the process of moving someone to a care setting. They identified...